Before you fly

Prep & packing

The carry-on rules, the etiquette, the booking order, and the backup plans.

Pack this, and not much more

17 nights, carry-on only, no checked bag: one roller/rollaboard each plus one backpack each as a personal item, and a self-service laundry stop built into the last evening in each city, four in all, so nothing dirty gets packed for the next stop (see Laundry, the real plan below). October runs warm in Barcelona and Rome (~70°F days), cool and damp in Paris and London (~55°F, dark by 16:30). Everything below layers. Buy full-size toiletries, sunscreen and blister plasters at a pharmacy on day one, they are cheap and everywhere, and the French pharmacies are a highlight in themselves.

The bag

Laundry, the real plan

Four stops, one per city, on the last evening before you move on to the next one, each already built into that day’s itinerary with its own time block, address, phone and walk time. All four are self-service, wash and dry run back to back so it is a real ~75-130 minute errand (mostly the machines, the walk itself is short everywhere but Barcelona and London), never something squeezed in. Hotel laundry/valet is the backup at every property if a laverie is ever closed or you would rather skip the errand, but it is typically priced per item and can run $80-150+ for a two-person load; self-service is the default because it is roughly €10-20 a stop.

CityWhenWhereFrom the hotel
BarcelonaThu 15 Oct, evening (last night before Rome)El Safareig del Barri, Carrer d’Aragó 104 (self-service), 8:00-22:00 daily, 365 days, +34 934 616 878~19 min / 1.4 km each way
RomeTue 20 Oct, evening (last night before Paris)Lavanderia Self Service Punto Blu, Via Cavour 168, Mon-Sat 8:30-20:30, +39 06 9020 6278~6 min / 500 m each way
ParisMon 26 Oct, evening (last night before London)Laverie Saint-Honoré, 72 rue Saint-Honoré, daily 7:00-22:00, +33 1 45 75 75 20~2 min / 120 m each way
LondonThu 29 Oct, evening (last night before flying home)Pimlico Launderette, 3 Westmoreland Terrace SW1V 4AG, Mon-Sat 8:00-19:00 (last wash 18:00 small / 17:30 large machines), +44 7391 001142 (call or WhatsApp)~18 min / 1.3 km each way

Mid-stay option in Paris: six nights there is long enough that a wash partway through is worth knowing about, even though it is not on the itinerary. While you are still at the Marriott Rive Gauche (17 Boulevard Saint-Jacques, the first four Paris nights, before switching to L’Empire), the nearest self-service option is Julice Laverie, 30 rue Raymond Losserand, 75014, open daily to about 22:30, +33 6 52 07 72 39, about a 25-minute walk (roughly 2 km). Optional and backup-only, use it if something needs washing before the Oct 26 stop near L’Empire.

Two kits worth packing on purpose

The long-haul under-seat kit (LAX-BCN and LHR-LAX)

The daypack, walking-day foot kit

The Sudoku Method, the clothes plan

The idea Le Andra found: pack clothes like a Sudoku grid. Nine pieces each, 3 tops, 3 bottoms, 3 layers. The one rule, borrowed from the puzzle: every piece has to work with every other piece. Lay them out three by three, one top / one bottom / one layer per row and per column, and if every square makes an outfit, you did it right.

The math: 3 tops × 3 bottoms × 3 layers = 27 outfits from 9 pieces. Two pairs of shoes makes it 54; two scarves makes every one of those look different again. More than enough for 17 days with one wash, out of a carry-on.

The rules that make it work

The dress code, for him

One shopping trip, one palette: navy and charcoal as the two base neutrals, oatmeal as the warm light one, mid-blue denim, and burgundy as the single accent. Every piece below is one of those colours, so any top goes with any bottom goes with any layer.

Navy#26314B
Charcoal#3B3B3D
Oatmeal#C9B79A
White#F1ECE0
Denim#4C6379
Burgundy#6E2B33
TOPSBOTTOMSLAYERSoatmeal teenavy teecharcoal polodark jeanscharcoal chinostone chinogrey sweaternavy overshirtnavy blazer

Everyday walk: oatmeal tee, jeans, grey knit    Smart-casual / church: navy tee, charcoal chino, overshirt    The big dinner: charcoal polo, charcoal chino, navy blazer.  Every other path through the grid is an outfit too, 27 in all.

Shoes, two pairs

White leather sneaker#ECE7DC
Dark-brown suede shoe#4A3626

A clean white leather sneaker for the day (does gym duty), a dark-brown suede derby or low boot for dinner. Belt in the same brown. Brown reads warmer with navy and burgundy than black does.

What that actually looks like

A sample from the grid above, so it stops being abstract. Swap in your real photos once these pieces are bought and you've settled on the fits — same layout, real garments.

grey sweateroatmeal teedark jeanswhite sneaker
Barcelona & Rome
Everyday walk
oatmeal tee, dark jeans, grey sweater
navy overshirtnavy teecharcoal chinowhite sneaker
Church & the museum days
Smart-casual / church
navy tee, charcoal chino, navy overshirt
navy blazercharcoal polocharcoal chinosuede shoe
The big dinner
The big dinner
charcoal polo, charcoal chino, navy blazer

Outside the grid

Shoes, two pairs

Gym, keep it minimal

Meds and health, carry-on, original packaging

Electronics, one device

The dress code, for her

Straight off the pieces you were laying out: black and camel as the two base neutrals, cream as the light one, mid-blue denim, and soft slate blue as the accent (it picks up the paisley scarf). One trip, one palette, everything mixes.

Black#1B1B1B
Camel#B49773
Cream#EEE6D4
White#F4F1EA
Denim#5B7793
Slate blue#6E8AA6
TOPSBOTTOMSLAYERScream henleycamel knitblack knit topdark jeansblack trousersblack skirtblue-grey knitivory shirtblack blazer

Everyday: cream henley, jeans, blue-grey knit    Layered day: camel knit, black trousers, blue-grey knit    The big dinner: black on black, the blazer.  Every other path through the grid is an outfit too, 27 in all.

Plus the packable knit midi dress (black or camel), a standalone outfit that needs no square, and the Burberry camel-check + blue paisley scarves as the resetters.

Shoes, two pairs

White / tan sneaker#E7E1D5
Black ankle boot#1B1B1B

A low white or tan sneaker for walking, a black ankle boot for dinners and the cool days. Black boot goes with black, camel, cream and denim, the most-combinable dressy shoe for this trip. Day bag the tan crossbody, a small black clutch for dinner.

What that actually looks like

Same idea as his, a sample from the grid. Swap in your real photos once these pieces are bought and you've settled on the fits.

blue-grey knitcream henleydark jeanstan sneaker
Barcelona & Rome
Everyday
cream henley, dark jeans, blue-grey knit
blue-grey knitcamel knitblack trouserstan sneaker
Layered / cooler day
Layered day
camel knit, black trousers, blue-grey knit
black blazerblack knit topblack trousersankle boot
The big dinner
The big dinner
black knit top, black trousers, black blazer

Bonus piece + outside the grid

Shoes, two pairs

Rotate the two pairs when you can, rather than wearing the same one every day. Put the proven walking shoe on the 15,000-20,000 step days and let the other pair air out and dry overnight.

Toiletries, skincare, the rest

Shared, health and safety

What a week off the grid looks like

Same nine pieces, different day

What each place won’t let you bring, or wear

Pulled from each venue’s own official site, September 2026. The full version of each row lives on that item’s reservations card, under “Know before you go”, this is the scan-it-once summary, grouped by city in the order you’ll hit them. Where a site wouldn’t confirm a figure (marked not confirmed), that’s a genuine gap in what they publish, not something skipped, don’t rely on the number.

PlaceDressBag limitBiggest gotcha
Sagrada FamíliaShoulders covered, no short shorts/skirts, no bare feetnot confirmedNo photos at all inside, phone or camera
Park GüellNoneNone publishedNo sitting/lying on the benches or lawns
Vatican Museums + Sistine ChapelShoulders AND knees, both of you, no hats40×35×15cm, or to the free cloakroomTotal photo ban in the Sistine Chapel, no exceptions
Galleria BorgheseNone21×15cm, essentially no backpack at allStrictest bag rule of the whole trip, carry a tiny pouch or check the daypack
Colosseum + Palatine + ForumNo costumes/fancy dressnot confirmedClosed-toe shoes essentially mandatory, uneven ancient stone on the arena floor and Palatine paths
Eiffel TowerNoneChecked with a sizer gauge, no cm publishedNo glass bottles or cans up the tower, drink the Champagne Bar glass at the bar
LouvreNone55×35×20cm, free lockers under thatNo selfie sticks or flash
Versailles, palace + gardensNone for a regular visit55×35×20cm estate-widePicnicking only in three marked spots in the gardens
Sainte-ChapelleNone“Bulky luggage” not allowed, no cm publishedCourthouse security: all glass containers banned, any sharp object however small, confiscated items aren’t returned
Notre-DameShoulders/stomach/thighs covered, hats off for men, non-compliance can mean turned away~20L backpack not independently verifiedModest dress is enforced at the door, this is a working church
Westminster AbbeyModest, working church40×30×20cm, no wheeled bagsNo photos in the Diamond Jubilee Galleries you booked, despite photos being generally allowed elsewhere in the Abbey
Tower of LondonNone specific, no bare chestsNo suitcases/large bags, no cm publishedNo photos of the Crown Jewels, banned in the Jewel House and Martin Tower
Churchill War RoomsNoneNo suitcases, wheeled luggage or large rucksacks, no cloakroom at allLeave big bags at the hotel, there is nowhere to check one
Warner Bros. Studio TourNone confirmed either wayScanned, free cloakroom for anything largeBag scanners at entry, budget a few extra minutes
West End theatres (Lyceum, Prince of Wales)None statedNo suitcases/large bags, small paid cloakroom onlyBag checks at the door, arrive a little early

Leave it home, buy it there

Cut from the usual bag

What to buy on the ground

The short shopping list, by stop, with the errand time already worked into the day it belongs to. Groceries, coffee and pastries are a near-daily small spend and sit in each day’s food line, not here.

BuyWhere & whenRough
Arrival basics, full-size sunscreen, any toiletries you didn’t bring, tissues, hand sanitiser, a bladeless corkscrew if you skipped oneBarcelona, a farmàcia or supermarket, Day 2 afternoon (errand is on the Oct 14 page)~$40
Blister plasters (Compeed) and anything the feet need after two big walking daysBarcelona or Rome pharmacy, whenever it first pinches~$12
A cheap umbrella, only if you didn’t pack the compact one or it isn’t enoughRome, Paris or London, street vendors appear the moment it rains~$10
French-pharmacy skincare, discretionary, this is a want not a needParis, any green-cross pharmacy or the Champs “Pharmacy” (Le Drugstore)your call
The one big VAT purchase, if you make itParis, a smaller Saint-Germain boutique; validate the form at Gare du Nord on the 27thseparate
Beach towel, optionalBarceloneta stall, only if you want a beach sit~$7

Only the arrival basics (~$40) and the plasters (~$12) are counted in the budget, on Day 2. The rest is either optional or already its own line.

Do, don't, be ready for

Do

Don't

Be ready for

When to carry your passport

The plan is to leave passports in the apartment safe and carry a photo of the ID page plus a driver's licence day to day. You've already confirmed both passports are valid past 1 May 2027 (the six-month margin Schengen and the UK want) with blank pages to spare, so that's handled. On these days the real passport comes with you, it is checked against a booking or a border:

Passport days

Booking order, and when tickets drop

WhenBook
BookedAll four flights, Eurostar, five hotel stays, The Ivy, Vatican, Borghese, Sagrada Família, Studio Tour, Colosseum, Eiffel summit, Louvre, Versailles, Tower of London, Westminster Abbey and Paris Museum Pass are already on their day pages. Use the exact proof links beside each timed stop. Booking confirmations are not always admission tickets.
Still openNotre-Dame Oct 26: free same-day timed slot if released for two, otherwise walk up. The optional LAX lounge is a day-of decision, not a reservation. Check current day pages for any venue reconfirmation or new disruption.
Day beforeA third West End show on TodayTix, if wanted.

How to show your tickets

Same detail as each reservation card, grouped so the print list is obvious. Anything in the first group, print it and pack it before you fly, everything else lives on a phone.

Print these, don't rely on your phone

  • Eurostar: Paris (Gare du Nord) to London (St Pancras)

App-only, no paper backup exists

  • Los Angeles (LAX) to Barcelona (BCN)
  • Rome Fiumicino (FCO) to Paris Orly (ORY)
  • London Heathrow (LHR) to Los Angeles (LAX)
  • Priority Pass Select unlock fee (Capital One Venture X, authorized users), both of you
  • Star Alliance Lounge, LAX (Tom Bradley International Terminal)
  • Sagrada Familia, 'with Towers' + audioguide
  • The Book of Mormon, Prince of Wales Theatre
  • Colosseum arena floor + Forum + Palatine, guided tour (Ivo Tours)

Phone or printed, either works

  • Park Güell, Monumental Zone, x2
  • Vatican Museums + Sistine Chapel, official guided visit
  • Warner Bros. Studio Tour, The Making of Harry Potter (with Breakfast at the Hogwarts Table)
  • The Lion King, Lyceum Theatre
  • San Clemente, lower levels (x2)
  • Eiffel Tower, lift to the summit
  • Paris Museum Pass, 4 days, x2
  • Louvre, timed entry (with the pass)
  • Musée de l'Orangerie, timed entry (with the pass)
  • Musée d'Orsay, timed entry (with the pass)
  • Versailles, palace timed entry (with the pass)
  • Versailles, Grandes Eaux Musicales (Musical Fountains), x2
  • Sainte-Chapelle, timed entry (with the pass)
  • Conciergerie, timed viewing slot (with the pass)
  • Westminster Abbey
  • Tower of London
  • Churchill War Rooms

No ticket at all, just ID + the card on file

  • Barcelona, Eixample (3 nights)
  • Rome, Monti (5 nights)
  • Paris, Marriott Rive Gauche (nights 1 to 4)
  • Paris, last two nights (nights 5 to 6)
  • London, Victoria (3 nights)

No ticket at all, the reservation is enough

  • Le Train Bleu, Paris (the big dinner)
  • La Poule au Pot Paris 7, dinner for two
  • Seine sunset cruise with champagne, Paris
  • The Ivy West Street, London (the farewell dinner)
  • Cafe Murano, Covent Garden, London (before The Lion King)
  • Louis Vuitton personalization consultation, Barcelona
  • Louis Vuitton personalization consultation, Rome arrival day
  • Louis Vuitton personalization consultation, Paris first day
  • Louis Vuitton personalization consultation, London Selfridges
  • Bar del Pla, Barcelona (first-night dinner)
  • A proper Roman trattoria, Rome (dinner)

Not booked yet, format not known

  • Notre-Dame, free timed reservation

The final 7-day check

Everything on the trip that can quietly change between now and then. Run this list the week before you fly.

Hours, schedules, conditions

Crowds, transit, the clock

The daily rhythm

Europe is an evening trip. The good hours are 21:00-24:00, music in the streets, everyone out. Build the day around protecting them.

How each day runs

Getting around, and airport time

Walk vs. ride

Airports, you are “foreign passengers,” so add time

Tipping, and the cash to actually carry

Three of these four countries barely tip at a meal. London is the exception, and it is the one place where getting it wrong is noticed. Each city page repeats its own rule under How it works here; this is the whole picture in one place.

WhereAt a mealThe rule
Barcelona
Spain
NoService is already in the price. Round up, or leave about 5% only if it was genuinely good. Tapas bars and cafés: nothing at all. Most locals leave coins or leave nothing.
Rome
Italy
NoRead the bill first. Coperto (a cover charge, €1-3 a head) and sometimes servizio are already printed on it. Neither is a tip, and nothing further is owed. If there is no servizio and the meal was good, round up or leave €1-2 a head. Coffee standing at the bar: leave the small change, or nothing.
Paris
France
NoService is included by law (“service compris”), so the number on the menu already contains it. For genuinely good service leave a few coins or round up. Never a percentage.
London
UK
Yes, the one stop that tipsMost sit-down restaurants add a discretionary service charge, usually 12.5%. If it is on the bill, that is the tip, do not add anything on top. If nothing was added, leave 10-12.5%. Since Oct 2024 the law requires all of it to reach the staff. Pubs: never tip for drinks ordered at the bar.

The short version

How much cash to carry, each

The card is the default here, and cash is the small secondary. All four cities run on contactless, so the no-foreign-transaction-fee card covers hotels, museums, transport, shops and most restaurants. Cash exists for the handful of places that are awkward about cards. Two numbers below, per person: what you will really spend in a day, and the float worth having on you so you are never stuck.

CityCash a day, eachFloat to carry, eachWhat it is for
Barcelona€10-15~€50Boqueria stalls, a coffee, a small bodega, coins for a toilet.
Rome€20-25~€75The most cash-hungry stop. Small trattorias, gelato, coffee at the bar, Mercato Testaccio, church candles and donations, the €2 each for the Trevi close-up area.
Paris€10-15~€50The Rue Cler traiteur picnic, a market, a boulangerie, toilets.
London£5-8~£25The least cash of the four. Almost nothing needs it, but the Regency Café in Pimlico is cash only, and a market stall may be.

The float is what is on you, not what you spend. Keep the rest in the room safe. Across a stop that works out to roughly €100 each for the five Rome nights and well under that everywhere else.

Carrying it, and not losing money on it

Register before you go

A few minutes, done once

Enrol at step.state.gov

Emergency

One tap, not a search, if something goes wrong.

The numbers

US embassies and consulates on this route

If it goes wrong

The five

Small things that make a big difference

The quick-reference version. Everything here lives in full further up this page, this is just so it’s easy to find again.

The recap